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Stay Humble & Kind

The last few months have been a long hard road for me for many reasons.  Today, for the first time in a very, very long time, I am starting to feel like me again. I am once again reminded of the many blessings I have in my life, the amazing people that have gone above and beyond to make sure I was doing okay, taking care of me in ways I would have never thought I'd need or ask for help in.  I can never ever thank those people enough because they will never know how deeply thankful I really am.

This lady has always known she was strong, but I learned once again, and even more than ever, that I wouldn't be where I am without the people who support me.  I can not even put into words my gratitude, but know that every single one of you were a reminder that being humble and kind may not bring you the riches of the world, but to me it makes me the richest person I know - in love, kindness, hope and friendship.

The funny thing is, I was asked if I had the choice to live on a desert island alone or with my worst enemy, I joked that I'd do it on my own in a heartbeat because I don't need anyone.  But truth be told, I do need people. I need every single one of you guys!  I love and root for you just like you do for me.  Love is the greatest gift we could ever enjoy in this life and being humble and kind might bring you more love than you could ever imagine.

PS Thank you notes will be coming, eventually!! 

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